Thoughtful Thursday: Learning to Live Deliberately
I think this is an odd thing to share. Perhaps it’s just a little personal, I don’t know. Let’s just say that it is absolutely just a little strange for me to let the world into my kitchen. Most people probably don’t feel that way, but what can I say? It’s my sanctuary.
So, I’ve been struggling with this week’s Thoughtful Thursday. I honestly did not know what to write about and I flirted with this idea time and time again, but told myself that I was not really qualified to write about it. Here is the big BUT, this entire week I have talked to and heard from people about how disappointed they are in themselves because they have failed at the diet that they were trying to adhere to. “Diet” being a loose term perhaps better described as “eating healthier”, and that is different for each individual.
It got me thinking. How come we never mess up? I know what that sounds like. Believe me, we do make a lot of mistakes, this just happens to be an area where we quite simply, don’t. As Darren Hardy says, “I’m not saying this to impress you, but to impress upon you.” And, I guess, that’s what I mean. In no way do I think that this will impress anyone or that it is even impressive, but perhaps sharing this small bit of information could be useful to someone out there.
Let’s start by saying my fridge does not look like this 100% of the time, but we do have a 100% success rate for our healthy eating goals {so far} because we try our best. So remember, this isn’t about perfection. It’s about just a little bit of planning.
Every week, I start by asking myself 4 basic questions:
1. What could make my job easier?

The fridge is the epicenter. It sets the pace for everything that you are committed to as far as dietary health. Not eating any processed food meant a lot of changes in our lives but mostly our fridge. This is what I do, it will be different for everyone. The top shelf is set aside for meal prep, these are predominantly used for dinners.
- pre-cut broccoli
- pre-cut cauliflower
- sliced bell peppers
- sliced zucchini
- cubed squash
- sliced mushrooms
- sliced leeks
- diced tomato & onion for salsa
- diced celery
- diced carrots
- diced onions
The middle shelf is a free for all, these are made for the purpose of breakfasts, snacks and lunches.
- cubed melon {cantaloupe, honeydew, watermelon}
- cubed pineapple
- fresh coconut pieces
- carrots sticks, in filtered water
- celery sticks, in filtered water
- pre-cut broccoli
- pre-cut cauliflower
- diced bell peppers {omelette fixings}
- diced onions {omelette fixings}
- sliced mushrooms
- sliced cucumbers
- berries
- boiled eggs
- sprouts
The bottom shelf is anything else that doesn’t belong on the top 2 shelves.
- at least 2 gallons of some kind of stock {chicken, lamb, turkey, beef}
- homemade kim chee or sauerkraut
- 5 dozen eggs {sorry, didn’t make the shot.}
- big greens {lettuce, spinach, kale, etc}
- pre-packed lunches
- coconut water
- almond milk
The bottom crisper drawers just have overflow fruits, veggies and large greens. Mostly used for juicing or refilling containers or things that don’t do well being cut up before hand, like herbs or ginger. With this method, produce is always seen and more importantly, never wasted.
2. What kind of snacks are we going to need?

We eat fruits for snacks.
FUN FACT: Fruits digest differently than other foods. Our bodies use completely different enzymes to digest fruits and this digestion happens very quickly in our bodies. If you eat fruits too close to a meal, during a meal or after a meal, those fruits are retained in the stomach too long and will actually rot in the gut. It will often manifest as gas, indigestion or even heartburn. Our bodies can benefit from the fiber, nutrients and simple sugars of fruits better when we eat them alone.
Other non-fruit snacks we keep on hand are:
- peanut butter
- almonds
- cashews
- walnuts
- sunflower seeds
- raisins
- homemade dehydrated fruits
- dates
- figs
3. Do we need any new batches of certain foods?

We try to routinely consume beneficial bacteria, better known as probiotics, in fermented foods. So each week, I make sure that we have what we need. I’m not saying that you need to start fermenting things on your kitchen counters too, but if there are things that you routinely eat that needs to be or can be prepared before hand, get it done. We also make our own kombucha for the beneficial probiotics. We just have on-going batches of these, so I really just bottle it up {in our recycled bottles} if we need more. Stock is also in this category. I roast 2 whole free-range organic chickens at the same time. Reserve all the meat for lunches or shredded chicken and then, use what is left to make chicken stock.

4. What’s for dinner?
Last but not least the freezer is stocked with pre-marinated meat and pre-cooked beans. Marinate in different marinades for about 30 minutes in the fridge and then freeze. I try to do 14 at a time, 2 weeks of dinners ready to go in the freezer. {Sorry, no photo.} Our freezer often has things like the following:
- 2 packages of pre-marinated chicken with taco seasoning
- 2 packages of pre-marinated chicken with lemon, rosemary & garlic
- 4 packages of pre-cooked beans
- 2 packages of pre-made turkey meat balls
- 2 packages of pre-made turkey burgers
- 2 packages of pre-marinated pork chops
I also keep a lot of frozen fruits for smoothies.
- frozen banana slices
- frozen blackberries
- frozen strawberries
- frozen cantaloupe
- frozen grapes
- frozen mangos
- frozen blueberries
We probably don’t eat the same kinds of foods, but the basic idea is the same. Like many other areas in life, preparation is key. To my friends who feel they have failed, I promise you that you have not. As all on-going processes go, we get better with time. Give yourself that. Give yourself that benefit of the doubt. Give yourself every opportunity you can to succeed.
Friends, I hope this Thoughtful Thursday post was helpful. As always in the comments below, please feel free to share more ideas and tips that will help our community to continue to strive towards better health.